Defined by beliefs
Defined by your looks
Defined by the imagery, in magazines and books…
Defined by your past
Defined by mistakes
Defined by the choices, that everyone makes…
Defined by society
Defined by your friends
Defined by the energy, the media expends…
Defined by opinions
Defined by the polls
Defined by the endless, never-ending loopholes…
Defined by your gender
Defined by your sex
Defined by the libido, trademarked by Durex…
Defined by relationships
Defined by your mates
Defined by desires; your likes and your hates…
Defined by ambition
Defined by success
Defined by your drive, to make more out of less…
Defined by definition
Defined by the fact
Defined by your fear and your failure to act…
shiny pebbles 
We are indeed defined by many things in this life
The Oxford English Dictionary gives the meaning for define as follows:
1. state or describe exactly the nature, scope, or meaning of. Give the meaning of.
2. mark out the limits of.
The choice we all have is whether we allow life to define us, or whether we chose to define our own lives. The latter being the hardest, yet most satisfying route by far. x